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Why should I pay cs?

Anonymous
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My ex is getting the kids for the summer. I told him to keep his cs since he is going to have them. He pays me 250 a month in cs. He asked how much was I going to give him for cs. I told him t think of the 250 he isn't paying me as cs. He had the nerve to say he didn't think 250 would cover everything the kids would need while he had them.
Ya think idiot? I didn't know 250 was barely a drop in the bucket considering that child care alone was 150 a week plus the kids activities, health insurance and all their other basic necessities. 
When I told him if he could afford to care for his kids they could stay here he dropped the subject about cs.
What did he expect from me? I bought them their season passes, travel expenses and summer clothes. All he has to do is feed them and spend time with them. His wife doesn't work during the summer so he shouldn't have any childcare expenses. 

Posted by Anonymous on May. 18, 2014 at 3:10 PM
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Lostinindy
by Platinum Member on May. 18, 2014 at 3:11 PM
Sounds like he thought you'd pay him $250 while he had them. Moron.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 18, 2014 at 3:11 PM
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Equal rights hon,

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 18, 2014 at 3:14 PM
He barely supports those kids as it is, what an idiot to expect you to pay him CS the only 2 months a year he actually takes care of them. Men are morons.
my123sons
by Silver Member on May. 18, 2014 at 3:14 PM
It sounds like if he wants it to be equal, then he should be paying a hell of a lot more than $250 a month.

Quoting Anonymous:

Equal rights hon,

vegaswife2011
by LMAO on May. 18, 2014 at 3:16 PM

You shouldn't have to pay him anything. Good luck. 

LyTe684
by Ruby Member on May. 18, 2014 at 3:17 PM
Is his cs court ordered?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 18, 2014 at 3:17 PM
He pays $2500 a year if you're granting him 2 months reprieve from CS. He sounds like an ass to even think of asking for support.
Maks1mommy
by Emerald Member on May. 18, 2014 at 3:17 PM
What a douche
codfish
by Gold Member on May. 18, 2014 at 3:18 PM
He will be getting to stop paying c for the summer. Most courts wouldn't agree to that.

Quoting Anonymous:

Equal rights hon,

mehaffiesub
by Lil' Frog on May. 18, 2014 at 3:19 PM
Yeah I wonder what the OP would do if the tables were turned?

Quoting Anonymous:

Equal rights hon,

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