Dh ignores me and never wants to spend time with me. I started flirting with a co-worker. It was harmless nothing sexual. It was just nice to feel important and pretty. I've told my husband what I needed and he never gave it to me. I never had any plan to have sex with my co-worker or actually go out with him. I ended up telling my husband tonight because he said he wanted to work on things. He told me to get put and go live with that guy and he could pay all my bills. I think he's being really unfair. I told him over and over again that I wanted to spend time with him and I felt neglected and he ignored it. I was just trying to be honest so we could move forward.