My husband and I have one child. A daughter who we adore. We struggled with infertility for a long time before we conceived her and pregnancy was hard on me. The day she was born, after she was asleep and I was lying in bed all snuggled with the new baby and DH, I looked at him and said "I am NEVER doing that again!".
DD is 3 now and I haven't wavered at all. I have the implanon in and truly the idea of having another baby kind of freaks me out. We're just starting to see the 'light at the end of the tunnel' of the baby years and we have a great family rhythm right now which I love.
DH and I were talking yesterday and he said that if I wanted he would ask the doctor about a vasectomy at his next appointment. He's 100% on board with only one child and I'm super keen to get this implanon taken out as well. It feels like the right time.
Anyway, sorry this is long. My question is this: Did you change your mind about how many children you wanted in your family? Were you happy with one (or two, or three) and think you didn't want anymore and then have something change your mind?