Our son is 5 months old and wont go by anyone but me and dh. in just 2 months we have a 4 day rock concert to go to in which his parents would be watching him. But if he isnt comfortable enough over there, I wont be going to the concert and staying home. We go to the concert with his brother, sisters, and there boyfriends every year as a combined birthday present to eachother. Would it be selfish if i wanted dh to stay home and not go to the concert if i have to stay home or should he get to go without me?Also the tickets are already paid for and are non refundable.