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My dh wants us to get marriage counseling but I am just done UPDATE I moved out

Anonymous
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I don't love him anymore and I haven't for awhile I don't want to waste any more time with him

I am filing for divorce and leaving him asap.

UPDATE: I moved out today. I got my own apartment and I am settling in

Posted by Anonymous on May. 25, 2014 at 5:50 PM
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Bluerose1482
by Platinum Member on May. 25, 2014 at 5:51 PM
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Well, if that's how you feel, not amount of counciling will help.  Just make sure it is what you really want before you walk away.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 25, 2014 at 5:52 PM
Ok. There is always next time I suppose.
corticosteroid
by Platinum Member on May. 25, 2014 at 5:53 PM

What does he hope to achieve with counseling?  Are the issues at all workable?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 25, 2014 at 5:53 PM
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Poor kids having a mom who is willing to just give up and walk away
L202M
by Silver Member on May. 25, 2014 at 5:54 PM

Why don't you love him anymore?

rebeccarae
by Bec on May. 25, 2014 at 5:54 PM
Well, you have the mindset that it's done and can't be fixed, therefore no effort he makes will change your mind. Hope he moves on and finds happiness.
oliveoil423
by Silver Member on May. 25, 2014 at 5:56 PM
Did he do something horrible for you to file a divorce and for you not to love him like you did?

If my husband wants to work it out with councling i will totally do it to see if there is still something there and for us to find if we still love each other.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 25, 2014 at 5:56 PM
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We don't have any huge major issues but I can't just force myself to love him

He thinks somehow a therapist can make me love him again

Quoting corticosteroid:

What does he hope to achieve with counseling?  Are the issues at all workable?

myempyreofdirt
by Platinum Member on May. 25, 2014 at 5:56 PM
If you're going to do that at least tell him the truth. Don't make him sit around trying to figure it out.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 25, 2014 at 5:56 PM
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Sometimes its best to know when to call it quits

Quoting Anonymous: Poor kids having a mom who is willing to just give up and walk away
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