We had a great time as a family today. We went bike riding and picniced at the park. I felt really happy and felt attractive today too. So I decided after flirting and being close to DH today to tell him after kids were asleep he was in for a great time in the bedroom . Something I never do. I don't usually feel confident enough to initiate sex or anything . He replied he wasn't doing anything with me unless I shaved. I was like wtf?? He took every ounce of sexy feeling and confidence I had and squashed it. I cried in the bathroom for an hour. He doesn't think he did anything wrong . I was gonna shave and its only a week growth not like a bush ffs. I am so mad and hurt,he doesn't get it. I'm crushed and he's like so are we gonna screw soon? Shit!