Okay , I ran across this post and figured , Hey she made a post how she felt about the topic I should too . Well Here It is .
If you missed it ... A women posted that basically if women were more submissive to their husband's there would be less divorce and blalalalala .
Here's my take on the situation . And weither y'all agree with me or not . That's fine ....
I honestly think there is TOO MANY women that are submissive to their husband's. I was with only 1 man in my lifetime and I am now going through a divorce. I can honestly say I walk away with no regrets. I made it known from the jump of our relationship that yea you can hold your grown .... But im going to do the same. We shared the Head of the household title. I knew when to step in and handle business just as he did. BEING SAID ! It wasnt submissive. We would come to agreements on things . But I always made it known that he does not have the upper hand on things . We are equal or im above you. No if and's or buts. Because my ex husband was a very manly man and how he grew up was like a big macho "oh hey im the man you listen to me" bs and If I allowed him to have full control of me I honestly believe he would have laid hands on me.
I believe as women , We do love hard , but what we tend to forget. Although we love who we love to death, It is not always the case on the other end . I feel like women tend to stick around with the same men that hit, lie and cheat on them hoping they will change.
I believe as women we need to hold to what we say. I feel like men get our love mistaken for weakness ( SOME ... THERE ARE SOME WONDERFUL MEN OUT THERE) .... But we all know there are those men where you give them a inch they take a mile...Kwim?
I told my ex husband from the beginning of our relationship.... We can work through ANYTHING.... As long as you don't cheat , Nor place your hand's on me. Because I am a firm believer what is done in the dark will come to light sooner or later and once I do find out I will leave and never turn back.... I found out he cheated on a Friday night, Sent him packing and by Monday I was meeting with a lawyer. As women we are never helpless . I see so many case's where there is a women with so much love to give , And so much to offer a man .... But stuck with the same SOB that's constantly cheating.
I took care of my husband ... And I know I was a damn good wife.... That's why I can walk away with NO REGRETS because I know I played my role as a good wife .
Now that I voiced my opinion's . I would like to hear yours. What's your take on the situation? What's your outlook on thing's ? IN A RESPECTFULLY MANNER! I believe we are all grown and I would really like to have a honest discussion on this topic.