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2nd update *** update***I think my youngest son was switched at birth!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
From day 1 ge has looked nothing like me, or his father or brothers. I have very dark hair and this child is blond!!!

And he is just evil! His personality us nothing like the rest of us.

I plan on a dna test this summer


*** update*** all 5 of us had our Dna tests this morning. Results will be in within 6 weeks, more waiting.
We are also looking into the invetro clinic we used for 2yrs before getting pregnant. When I stopped invetro I was not pregnant, they did a blood test. But I was pregnant 6 weeks later when I took a home test



2nd update.
Well he is not our child. I feel relieved. He wasn't switched , apperarently the clinic messed up, royally. I wasn't tested late enough, just 2.5 weeks from an embryo being implanted.
That wasn't ours!! I can't r Era lay go onto more detail. But he will be staying with us, I really feel to peace now that we know the truth. And therapy for all is set up
Posted by Anonymous on May. 27, 2014 at 2:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 174 on May. 29, 2014 at 6:29 PM
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That may be the case but they wouldn't have waited for a bunch of kids to come in and then once they have a few rounded up, then decide to put a bracelet/anklet on them. It would be done immediately. Which brings me back to what I wrote and I will add it also seems that you built a fantasy in your head, it didn't come true and you can't get over it/accept that this is your child. I honestly think that if this is a genuine post you should seek counselling. You have created distance from him in your mind ever since you saw how he looked and he probably knows you don't feel close to him. It's really sad. AND even if a DNA test showed you weren't his bio mom you are the only mom he has known and you need to do right by him until the time he gets sent elsewhere (if that even happens).

If I found out the child I raised was not bio mine it would be absolutely crushing to me to have to give them to someone else, as much as I would also want to take possession of my bio child simply because I know I made them. 

Quoting Anonymous: All I know from medical records is baby went to nursery, and there were 100 other children there at the time. Many from adoption, abandoned, and government. .
Quoting Anonymous:

And the people escorting him from the room would have made sure his bracelet went on straight away. They didn't leave him in the hallway and come running back for you. Maybe his personality is the way it is because he was emotionally distressed on entering this world and you have PTSD type feelings and so cannot bond with him. Stop side stepping the issue and get counselling. 

Quoting Anonymous: Yes they have. But when the mother is dying they rush baby from the room to make way for other nurses and drs
Quoting fanciepantz: You're ridiculous. He is 2.5 they have been using those bracelets for longer than 2 years and they put those bracelets on before baby even leaves your room. How do you think they switched your baby?



Anonymous
by Anonymous 175 on May. 29, 2014 at 6:30 PM
What will you do if he is yours?
Barbi2
by on May. 29, 2014 at 7:10 PM

I hope you haven't let him know you think this.  Nor should he know about the test.  How old is he?  Your challenge is to show the power of love --loving discipline --as though he were your own problem child and not the spawn of Satan!  I hope he's little --because this is the time to deal with what Dr. James Dobson called "Tiny Defiance."  You don't punish for "childish irresponsibility"  except to teach that there are consequences to it.   But firm correction with you as winner is needed to show a bratty child that you love him too much to let him be bratty.  Get the Dobson books at the Christian bookstore --much wisdom there.  The Dog Whisperer even has wisdom --about your need to be DOMINANT along with your husband --in your home --so that he "heels" when he should for his own good --a spoiled child has no friends and is a miserable child.


Bluerose1482
by Platinum Member on May. 29, 2014 at 7:12 PM

What does your husband say?

EntrepeneurMom
by The Major on May. 29, 2014 at 7:12 PM

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I have my doubts ssometimes.

Quoting MaryJarrett: Are you sure he's human? Who doesn't like cotton candy!? O.o

;-)


Quoting EntrepeneurMom: Mine was definitely switched. He doesn't like cotton candy.
DaBuzz
by Platinum Member on May. 29, 2014 at 7:32 PM


RaelynneS
by on May. 29, 2014 at 7:40 PM
Even if he was switched
1: you're a dick for posting this about that poor baby
2: if you did the dna testing and "give him back" you are an even bigger dick. He will have trouble with attachment and adjustment for the rest of his life

I feel sorry for him and hope that at some point you will realize how ridiculous you are.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 29, 2014 at 7:46 PM
So you think its ok to keep a child from his real parents? To know if his allergies are inherited, if he stand to inherit any diseases?

Quoting RaelynneS: Even if he was switched
1: you're a dick for posting this about that poor baby
2: if you did the dna testing and "give him back" you are an even bigger dick. He will have trouble with attachment and adjustment for the rest of his life

I feel sorry for him and hope that at some point you will realize how ridiculous you are.
lucy164
by Member on May. 29, 2014 at 8:07 PM

no child is evil

MerryAnna
by Member on May. 29, 2014 at 8:38 PM
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The fact that would even wonder about this makes me wonder about u! My kids are mine, not because I grew them but because I fed them, changed their diapers, wiped their noses and kissed their owies. If they were switched at birth I would never want to know. They are MINE
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