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DH put his hands on me !!!

Anonymous
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Okay so b4 I get into it....it seems when I say one horrible thing people will judge overral without knowing the whole story.

DH is a good man and he takes care of me well. He is loving and very supportive. I don't know what I do without him.

But he made a mistake the other day. We got into an argument about something, I got angry and I took his notebook and hit him with it. I know it is wrong but I didn't even throw it hard I am sure he barely felt it.

He grabbed me, threw me really hard on the ground and kicked me hard in my back like 5 times.

I left for a whole day but came back the end of the day because I had no where to go and I slept in my car.


When I came back he was in tears and kept apologizing. That was like 3 days ago.

Since than I havent cooked for him, cleaned up the house, nothing. I wont kiss or hug him. He is constantly kissing me, hugging me, telling me he is sorry and he needs me so much.

He woke up this morning and said please kiss me I am sorry.

I refuse. I wont give him ass either!!!!!!!!!!! He hurt me.


What should I do? Should I forgive him by now or keep ignoring him?

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:31 AM
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livingforthem83
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:34 AM
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It's up to you to forgive him or not, no one can make that decision but you.

Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:35 AM
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No, what he did is abhorrent. He'll do it again.
hopeym23
by J3 on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:36 AM

That would be crossing the line for me.  I'm sorry you are going through this.

themaurer7
by Gold Member on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:36 AM
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Go to counseling. You both behaved wrong, him more than you of course. Is this the first time he has ever laid a hand on you? Has he ever been verbally abusive? A few apologies would not be enough. Hope everything gets better.
KendallsMommee
by Spoiled SAHM on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:36 AM
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Run.Fast.Now.
PoisonEyeV
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:38 AM
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He threw you to the GROUND and KICKED you in the BACK!

I can't believe you're looking for advice. It's time to leave.

PoisonEyeV
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:39 AM
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If you stay with him it's only giving him clearance to do these things to you again seeing as how you didn't have the spine to leave him in the first place.

Tough love, but that's just how it is.

supergasper
by Gold Member on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:39 AM
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You need to leave.  Get out now.

mamaBerg85
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:40 AM
I agree. I also think he should go for a bit!

Quoting themaurer7: Go to counseling. You both behaved wrong, him more than you of course. Is this the first time he has ever laid a hand on you? Has he ever been verbally abusive? A few apologies would not be enough. Hope everything gets better.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 2, 2014 at 8:40 AM
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You shouldnt have hit first. You were in the wrong. You man enough to hit him your ass is man enough to take it
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