Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

WWYD if your husband said...

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
  • 82 Replies
He wants to start buying sex toys, other then a normal vibrator, handcuffs, etc. Like Ben wa balls and watching porn movies because it turns him on more?

The sex toys I don't mind but I am a little bothered that he said porn turns him on more. It made me feel like I do it just enough but porn is what really gets him going good. It makes me feel like I don't do anything good enough.

I'll probably get bashing about how I need more confidence and blah blah but it's not a confidence thing. It's more of why does porn turn him on more when I can do the same exact things in real life?

What would you say if your dh/bf/so said this to you?



For those who don't know what Ben wa balls are, they are 2 little weighted balls connected on a string that get inserted into the vagina and we are supposed to clench to keep them held in during oral sex or whatever sexual activity. Typically they are used after having a baby while doing kegel exercises to help tighten the vagina again
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:16 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:18 PM

BUMP!

alexsmomaubrys2
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:18 PM
2 moms liked this

We already do all of that so it wouldn't bother me. 

Porn isn't better than you, it is just a different form of stimulus. 

j3st3r
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:19 PM
3 moms liked this

Porn does not bother me, nor do sex toys.

I'd say "Let's go shopping!"

MrsViau
by PinkGiraffe on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:19 PM
Say ok and shop together :)
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:19 PM
What's a Ben wa balls?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:21 PM
There 2 little balls on a string that you put in your vagina and they're weighted so you have to clench to hold them in. It's supposed to improve stimulation for us by like......alot lol
Quoting Anonymous: What's a Ben wa balls?
booaura
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:22 PM
Cool, lets go get some more stuff :)
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:22 PM
1 mom liked this
I'd say no to that lol but if you're willing I see nothing wrong with it

Quoting Anonymous: There 2 little balls on a string that you put in your vagina and they're weighted so you have to clench to hold them in. It's supposed to improve stimulation for us by like......alot lol
Quoting Anonymous: What's a Ben wa balls?
lovinlife0429
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:23 PM
Good Lord we have so many toys and DVDs we could open our own shop. I have always been open to it all.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:23 PM
I guess I just never understood watching porn. I like being turned on by my dh and not some random guy on tv. Maybe it is a confidence issue but for me, it's wanting to know that it's JUST me turning him.
Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

We already do all of that so it wouldn't bother me. 

Porn isn't better than you, it is just a different form of stimulus. 

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)