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Were you friends with your SO first?

Posted by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:23 PM
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Were you friends with your SO before you're in a relationship?

My DF and I were friends for a year before I finally gave in to my feelings. Our situation was complicated and rather than add more to my plate I just wanted to be friends. He was a huge part of my life and I couldn't have imagined it without him. He made it very clear that he wanted all or nothing. He didn't just want to be friends and couldn't emotionally handle it. We stopped talking so much and I realized I was in love with him.
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Glitchtastic
by Glitter Trauma on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:24 PM
Bump
booaura
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:24 PM
No, we met and started dating almost right away.
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KelliansMom
by Platinum Member on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:24 PM
Yep. We were roommates first to.
AeternaV
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:24 PM
Yes
TheFairest
by Mother of Dragons on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:25 PM
I was actually friends with his sisters first. We we're friends for 4yrs before we dated. I did a lot of embarrassing stuff in front of him, lol I was a HS girl and he was almost a college grad at the time.
peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:26 PM

yes, I worked with DH for about a year before we started dating

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:26 PM
When we first met we hated each other. We couldn't stand to be anywhere near each other. We eventually learned to tolerate each other and eventually became friends just a few months before we started dating. So yes we were friends before dating. Lol
PeppermintyTea
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:27 PM
No.
Bubbie0809
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:27 PM
No, we met through mutual friends.
Started seeing each other and moved into within months of meeting.
BAMFSFW
by on Jun. 2, 2014 at 1:27 PM
Yes, for 5 yrs.

He randomly kissed me one night after what was sapossed to be a date I was setting him up on w/ my friend. Fireworks! What's funny is even though a few people randomly made comments, I never realized he liked me. He was also my ex's best friend. We used to double date.
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