In a few hours we are going and pressing charges. ***Updated
We hired a private investigator. The man has lived in 7 states in 10 years. He always finds employment working with disabled adults. He has several children that he owes child support for.
My DD didn't know she was pregnant. We took her to the ER for stomach pains and turned out she was almost 6 months along. She had been dieting and working out with me, and had lost 30 lbs, so we didn't notice anything. Thankfully the baby is very healthy and happy.
So in a few hours we are going with the attorney to file charges against this predator. I am scared for the future of my daughter and what this will do to her mentally but I can not allow this man to get away with this.
****update and I will address some questions. DD has an IQ of 63. I was told that mentally she will not progress, in most areas, past the age of 14. Just two weeks ago, while shopping at A. C. Moores, she put a boa on, and bunny ears and hopped through the store. And for a few hours, even when we got home, she was a bunny. She has Tourettes. She throws temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way. She has never had a friend. It is impossible to see her, spend time with her and not know she is special needs.
The DA did not give us many answers yesterday. DH and I didn't get to go into the closed door meeting. The DA is going to review everything. She asked the PI for some additional information, with a deadline of Monday. So hopefully we will find out then what they will be charging him with. Also, our guardianship papers for GS will be finalized by Monday. We have set up a trust for the baby, and updated our wills. Everything is falling into place to protect my daughter and grandson.