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Caught DH masturbating ETA

Anonymous
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I was giving the kids a bath in their bathroom, and I needed a cup, I remembered we had one in our bathroom. I went there and as soon as I walk in, he freaks out and sits on the toilet really fast. I noticed he had an erection, toilet paper with cum next to him and porn on his cell. I shook my head, grabbed the cup an exited the bathroom. I'm a bit hurt, but at the same time I don't care. I feel at a loss, kind of like a failed wife kwim? Sigh...

Have you ever caught your husband masturbating? What was the reaction?

ETA: I'm a bit upset because he'll rather jack off, than have sex with me. We don't have sex too often, whenever I want to he doesn't want to, only when he wants.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:36 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:37 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:38 PM
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I masturbate. Why can't he?
naomishere
by Bronze Member on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:39 PM
Doesn't bother me at all
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:39 PM
I do it all the time.
MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:39 PM

 Why are you hurt? He saw a free moment, and took it.

cali_gurl
by Gold Member on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:39 PM
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 Exactly. We have sex together and also take care of ourselves alone when we feel like it. Unless we aren't having our needs met together i don't see the issue.

Quoting Anonymous: I masturbate. Why can't he?

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:40 PM
It's no biggie really, but I can see why you feel the way you do.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:40 PM
Yes. It didn't bother me.
smurfette1903
by I ♥ nutter on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:41 PM
Dudes masterbate. Girls masterbate. What's the issue?
Ashgambit
by Gold Member on Jun. 3, 2014 at 11:41 PM

 I have never caught him. I give him privacy in the bathroom, just as I expect privacy.  Nobody just walks into the bathroom while someone else is in there in my house.  Also, I really don't care that he masturbates.  I know he does it, he's admitted it to me.  What's the problem?  If I'm unable to give him what he's wanting at that precise moment, I don't mind him doing that. 

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