Bash away! No I'm not a troll I wish I were but this story is my life. When dh and I got married we both agreed I would be a sahm until our child became school age. He really wanted it and I really wanted it. I always had my own money I even saved 20,000 dollars before I left my job. I used my savings to help with food and bills. I no longer have any money and DH just gives me cash when I need it. He never gives me an issue but I feel like a child having to ask him for 5 dollars to get some damn coffee. He has no sex drive that's a whole other issue. When ever I start crying because we haven't had sex in months he just shuts down. Then the next thing I know we have a brand new bedroom set or tv or something. I recently wanted to take up golf but I didn't want to have to ask for him to pay for it. Guess what I just told him today I had a man hit on me and he said oh like he didn't care so I hung up. Now guess where we are going ....to the golf store. I. HATE. THIS!!!!!!