Dh and I have been married 16 years. They have two together and we have two together. His oldest is having issues with her Mom's family. My dh and I were discussing it and he was telling me about a family story about something that happened years ago when they were together. He said and us too during the story. I told him there is no us meaning him and her.He said well we were married and there was an us. Am I making a big deal out of this? It is a touchy subject for me.