i TOLD him I didn't want her back at my house damnit
Fast forward to 2 days ago. My neighbor (who was here at the party) commented on passing he had seen Dana and my SO sitting on our porch talking while I was at work. I was pissed but honestly had forgotten about it by the time SO got home from work.
Today I got off early and just came home, usually I text SO and ask if he needs anything from the store. Today I didnt and I got off 2 hours earlier than scheduled. Sure enough the two of them are on the porch talking. They looked surprised ro see me. I came calmly in the house. She left right away and my SO had to get ready for work so I didn't get a chance to address it before he left.
Later on my SD (6) randomly commented she wished miss Dana would come back because she always brings her chips and a juice from the store. I kept washing dishes but said does miss Dana come over a lot? She said yea and she always brings me chips!! (Very excited) i said oh, well thats nice of her. Then asked does miss Dana come inside when she visits to which SD said no. I left it alone after that.
Not sure what to think or how to address this. I don't really think he is cheating, BUT i did make it clear i do not like her and she isn't welcome....