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My daughters got into a fight, and now I've lost my child transport :(

Anonymous
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I pay my older daughter $40/week plus gas to drive her 12 year old sister to school during the year and day camp in the summer, and then pick her up in the afternoon. My older daughter is 21 and lives 10 minutes from us.

On Friday, my 12 year old was being mouthy and told her sister she hates her car and is embarrassed to be picked up in it. My 21 year old dented the side and is saving up to have it fixed. My 21 year old said she was being rude and my 12 year old mimicked her voice saying "you're being rude" and started laughing and said "you're such a loser" My 21 year old pulled over and told her to get out, if she didn't like driving in her car, she doesn't have to. She drove behind her the whole time, but forced her to walk 2.5 miles home.

Then, when they got home, my ydd cussed out my older dd and hit her. My odd called me and said she's not driving "the little bitch around anymore". I apologized profusely for my ydd, grounded her for two weeks and am furious with her.

I called my odd tonight and she said she's not driving her anywhere. I told her that's more of a punishment to me, because I have no one and no way of transporting her, but she said she didn't care, she's fed up and done taking "the stupid brat" anywhere.

I'm at a loss :( I truly have no way to get her to school or camp, ugh.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:38 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:40 PM
Both of ur dd's are bitches....disown them
thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:40 PM
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School bus and no summer camp for brats.

curvygurl1912
by Renee on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:41 PM
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This sounds very familiar. ... but if this is true, your odd is not responsible for your ydd transportation. Find a school or camp mate and pay them.
katydid150
by Silver Member on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:41 PM

See if you can get another family that goes to that school and camp to take her. Your older daughter should not have to take abuse for helping you out. 

JulyBabies
by Gold Member on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:41 PM

That's too bad and while I can't blame your older daughter, you are right, it's affecting you more. Hopefully, it's like most sibling arguments and it blows over soon.

smalltownteddy
by Gold Member on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:41 PM
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Unappreciative punkasses don't go to summer camp.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:41 PM

Personally I don't blame your oldest. I'd do the same thing.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:41 PM
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Take care of your own kid now.... Your kis your responsibility
tanyainmizzou
by Platinum Member on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:42 PM
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That is your younger daughter's fault.


She doesn't get camp because she is a brat.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 8, 2014 at 6:42 PM
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She should give you two weeks notice, since you were paying her.

Your daughter can walk or ride a bike if it's only 2.5 miles.
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