My DIL refuses to be a sahm now, causing major tension in their marriage :(
She's been off work for 8 months and told him two weeks ago she hates being a sahm, she hates being on a tighter budget and is planning on going back to work when my grand is 1, because she'll stop breastfeeding then. Her old company even said they'd offer her a bonus to come back because they miss her.
My son is so upset that she's changing the plan on them. He likes having her home, knowing the baby is safe and happy, knowing that the house and logistics are planned out after he gets home from working 10 hour days. They're fighting about it a ton and it's making me sad. I feel like it's selfish of her to change the plan on her own so suddenly, and part of me feels like it's unnatural for a mom to not enjoy being home with her babe.
It's not my place to say anything, but biting my tongue is tiring. Any thoughts? Would you say anything to him or her?