Having an issue with new neighbor, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. ***update***
First day and every day since we have been bothered and now stalked by a neighbor. There is a residential house across the street. Five adults live there, handicap and two have significant cerebral palsy. One of the men in a scooter comes to the house and sits outside in our yard and stares at out house. He knocks on our door, once opened our door. We of course instantly told everyone to make sure the door stays locked. When we come and go from the driveway he is waiting to talk to us. He said he wants to meet our kids, asked their names and ages. Asked if our girls were married or have boyfriends. It creeps me out. DH and I immediately started walking the girls out to their cars when they leave and they text when they are close so we can watch. I told him do not come to the door unless "this" car us here, pointing to DHs car. Last night, as soon as DH and I left in DHs car, he started knocking on our door. The kids didn't answer.
DH wants to yell at him, tell him flat out, stay away. I want to go to the home and talk to who runs it and tell them to make him stay away. But not sure if either will work!
I didn't see the man until 2pm, then I look outside and he is parked right in front of DDs truck, blocking her. She had to leave and didn't want to go out. I went out, asked him to move. He said " I was just waiting to meet your beautiful daughter". I told him no, he isn't meeting her, he isn't meeting any of my children. And he needs to leave. He started talking about how beautiful myself and my children are and how nice my husband is. I told him again, firmly without getting into a conversation, that he needs to leave. My next door neighbor came out, and stood beside me, also telling him to leave. He scooted away, mumbling something I couldn't understand.
My neighbor who has been here a while said he has had some issues with him but nothing like that. That it must be because I have daughters.
When DH got home, we, and a few neighbors I had talked to during the day, went to the house. It is disgusting! They don't have a person watching them full time. They only have assistance a few hours a day. Someone to give medications to them, feed them and "clean up". I was taken aback for sure. We asked another resident for information of who is in charge and after 15 minutes we got a name and phone number. I am calling today and if I see him again, anywhere near my home, I am calling the police.