About two days ago I met this guy at work who is tall, blue eyed and just so good looking. He said he needs people at his office who are energetic and blah blah and I gave him my number so he can call me and give me information about the job.
So he started texting me and flirting with me and wanted to take me out to a lobster date by the beach. But, I felt so guilty So I lied and said I was planning on going out of town for the day to look for property. I feel like he's trying to just sleep with me by the things he says sometimes. I absolutely love the extra attention! Who wouldn't? Right?
The guy owns his own construction business and has money in his bank accounts. I know because I can see it at work. I feel so evil, and feel like using him. Atleast I'm honest about it...
I love my boyfriend but I feel like I don't get what I need from him even though I have sat him down and told him how I felt.. I can't leave him because I would be homeless with my son. I wish he could just listen to my needs instead of ignoring them.. He's the type of guy who cannot communicate at all.. He thinks everything is about him and like I'm attacking him when I'm not.. I use words like "we" "us" so not to make it that way.. I feel like I give and give and he takes. But he won't give back :'( I actually ask him to give me flowers and he doesn't :( I can't even get that from him! Makes me cry that I have to ask every once in a while and he doesn't care:'(
I really like this attention. But I wish it was from my boyfriend instead of this other guy even though he's really good looking.
I know I probably shouldn't be with him anymore so there's not need to tell me.. You can call me a slut or whatever if it makes you feel better but I would like to know.. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IN THIS SITUATION?
Edit: THE GUY AND I HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING SEXUAL OR GONE ON ANY DATE.. This just happened two days ago...