I wish i could run away and never look back.... I've lived with my grandparents since 06' in their guesthouse...
A little back story is that my bf of almost 2 years moved in with me after our dd was born in 2013.
Shortly after we brought her home from the NICU, he was laid off, and is now doing stuff on the side until we can get his birth certificate so he can renew his liscense. (his BC is coming from another state, and we are trying to save to order it)
He can fix anything and has been a mechanic/welder for almost 19 years... He does side jobs and scrapping so he gets paid in cash... we make about 600 a week. We asked my grandparents if they could drop the rent to 300 and they agreed, so we barely scrape by...
The thing is my grandparents are always talking shit behind his back, and i hear it from my mom. They say he's worthless and should get a job, and stop free-loading... FYI we aren't on any PA.
I don't know what to do anymore, i could defend him, but I was raised not to speak my mind as that is disrespectful.
UGH... He is from MI, he has 6 aunts, 2 uncles, a step-dad and 2 sisters that he misses sooooo much he is depressed... They have all said if we want to start over, we could come live with anyone of them, and he would have a job... I would love to go!!! Being from Texas is not fun anymore, tired of living in a dust bowl.
I've talked about moving over with my family... but they say if I do, they'll take my oldest away. What?? That is dumb...UGH
Please help me, any kind words or advice will surley help :(
I will ignore the haters, thanks for reading