OK. I will admit my wrong doing in this. I had my daughter very young. (16) and honestly. I had no idea how to be a mother. Going into her teen years I got scared, I remembered all the things I was doing at her age that I didn't want her to do . Basically I didn't want her making the same mistakes I made. I became a very controlling mother. I monitored everything she did, She didn't go anywhere without me, I looked in her drawers everything. She turned 17 this year .... And since then she has been giving me absolute hell ! She always obeyed me , Never gave me issue's nothing. Now 17 comes and She has a boyfriend , Comes home at 12 every night , Disobeyed me , Doesn't clean up the house , NOTHING ! She always threatens me "I only have another 6 months til I can leave the home , I getting fed up with you controlling me" ... And that really hurts. I love her I do but now she is pushing me too far ! She came home yesterday with a hickey and I'm furious . I grounded her and she walked out of the house. She has no respect for me and is absolutely disobedient . Any advice? Please help.