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"You're not married FFS"

Anonymous
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Does it bother you when people who aren't legally married say they are or call their SO "husband" or "wife"? If so why?

I've been married 10 years, we dated 5 years before we married each other. Before we married we did live like a "married couple", everything we owned was in both our names, we shared insurance and were listed as beneficiary on each others things. I always just called him "my man" or "other half". I never used boyfriend fiance or husband.

It doesn't bother me when unmarried people claim to be. But I know it bothers some.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:48 AM
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tossed
by Platinum Member on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:49 AM
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I don't care what they call each other.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:49 AM
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Yes bc its immature and immaturity annoys me.
sandra_t00
by ChaChi on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:50 AM
I used to call my ex hubby. It didn't bother anyone else the whole 9 years I've been calling him that
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:50 AM
I could not care less.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:51 AM
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What's immature about it in your opinion?

Quoting Anonymous: Yes bc its immature and immaturity annoys me.
craazycuckoo
by on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:51 AM
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If it didn't bother you why did you make a post about it?


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:52 AM
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9 years is longer than some actual married couples last lol

Quoting sandra_t00: I used to call my ex hubby. It didn't bother anyone else the whole 9 years I've been calling him that
BossMomXo
by Silver Member on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:52 AM

I would call my fiancĂ© hubby sometimes because I know we're going to get married no matter what 

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LokisMama
by Platinum Member on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:52 AM

Just a matter of personal preference.  Doesn't bother me at all.  I've got friends who have been together for 30 years, have grown children, and never bothered to get married.  

AnnieGoolaheey
by Mrs. Annie Proffitt on Jun. 13, 2014 at 10:52 AM

No.

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