If you did which ceremony date do you celebrate as your wedding ceremony?
The reason I am asking is bc my DF and I are getting married this January. We already have the dress, ceremony place reception limo all that jazz ... We are also in the process of getting everything in order for my DF to adopt my boys. Our Laywer said it would be smarter if we got married sooner. Like had a low key secret courthouse type of thing in October just me and him and kept our orginal wedding plans for January.
No one but us would know that we got married in oct.
If we did this, when would we celebrate our wedding anniversary ... Technically it would be Oct but all of our friends and family would know it as jan ?