Hello! So, my 23 year old daughter is pregnant now....I am 44 and pregnant. It was obvioulsy a suprise baby but I am going to raise it and give this child the same love and support as I did for my three other children. I am worried because they are so close in age and this baby of mine will be pretty much the same age as her niece. :( I am wondering what I should do. If I should keep my bun in the oven once he/she is born, or if adoption is a better option. I am afraid of people's judgements and I know that I shouldn't be as shallow as to worry about people's petty judgements but you know how that goes. I am not thinking about adoption because of what people will think about the situation, but because of how hard it may be to have a however many month old child of my own and also become a grandmother a few months after. I am extremely worried. I love my daugher very much and I don't want her to feel scared and worried, even though that's how I'm feeling. I am a single mother with 3 kids and one on the way. I don't know how I will deal with another child anyway but I need some advice on what to do with my child. I have no idea on how to go about this situation. Thanks for reading and please reply with any advice or comments. Thank you again.