A few days ago a guy I used to know messaged me on Facebook. He was a friend back in my late teens (I am in my 30's now). We did have sex a couple of times, but it was just as friends or so I thought. Anyhow he mentions tonight that he was in love with me. I feel like an aSS because I never realized that. Back then sex was just sex to me. I never had any intent to have a relationship with him. He is a nice guy, but not my type. I wasn't looking for a relationship at all and never with him and now I feel like I led him on. I just thought the no-strings-attached view of things was mutual.
Before anyone asks I am very happily married, yes he knows this and said he is happy to see me doing so well. And DH does know I was talking to him. I do not hide anything from him.