He then asked "aren't you supposed to have him this month?" My response was yep, he asked if I was sure about him taking dd I said yes.
I explained to him I wasn't sure wether I wanted to have a vbac or csection and the risks with the vbac.
He told me if anything happend to me he'd raise my son. We haven't always gotten along but this made me thankful my daughter's dad is in her life for now.
I know sometimes I bitch and complain about him but my son's own father isn't willing to step up and be a real man about things. Yet here is my daughters dad willing to raise my lil guy who is no relation to him if something happens to me.
Keeping my kids together is what's important to me so I was shocked when he said he'd just have 2 kids from me(my son isn't his and I know most men wouldn't do this for an ex) to raise instead of just dd. His wife who he's been married to for 3 years is pregnant with their first child together.
I'm glad he found someone who makes him happy and thankfully someone has my back if anything goes wrong if I do decide to have a vbac.
I'd be having my son next week if I have a c-section.