My daughter had an abortion :( I'm devastated and angry and don't know what to do.
She was out visiting friends but when she got home I confronted her about it. She looked nervous but said "this is none of your business" and went to her room and shut the door. I went in after her and told her not to dare slam the door on me in my house, how could she do that, she knows we're a pro-life family who would have helped her in any way we needed. She told me my reaction is exactly the reason she didn't tell me, and to "mind my own business, if I wanted your opinion I would have asked". I'm ashamed to admit that I slapped her. I was just so worked up I did it but instantly regretted it. I started apologizing immediately but she pushed me, I fell and hurt myself, and by the time I got up she had her suitcase zipped, purse on and was leaving.
I tried calling her over and over and she didn't answer. When I finally got through last night it was her boyfriend who picked up. I asked him to put her on the phone and he said "fuck off, she doesn't want to speak to you, and from the sounds of it she doesn't want to see you again".
I'm so devastated and at a loss of what to do. I can't believe she had an abortion after a lifetime of me teaching her that me, our family, our religion and our values show it is not the right path. A lifetime of us volunteering at pregnancy centres showing women there are other options. A lifetime of us being so close, and now her boyfriend is telling me to fuck off? She's always been a good girl, putting herself through college through loans and scholarships and working and being a good student. I can't believe our family is torn apart.