There is a girl in our neighborhood, she is 2 years older than dd. Things were going well at the beginning of summer. However earlier this week the kids wanted to do a lemonade stand and the girl told dd she couldn't help. Dd has avoided her until today. We were taking the dog for a walk when the girl yelled hi to dd. Dd yelled hi back, ran inside to grab a jacket, and came out to play. The girl then proceeded to ignore her and even said to the other kids "do you hear that, it sounds like the wind" when dd went to go play with them.
Dd is 9 and I'm trying to let her solve her own issues, the girl also came over to apologize. But it tested my patience not to ask her what her problem was.