I have been living with my boyfriend and his 3 children for about 3 years. When school got out, my boyfriend and his baby mom agreed that she would take the kids to visit her sister for 2 weeks (she lives about 4 hours away).
While they were gone, the baby mom texted my boyfriend to say this exactly:
The girls say they miss you but that they don't miss your chick. Don't be mad at them for that.
I can't say it didn't get me upset because it did. But he told me this after the kids had come home and when they did come home, they hugged me for a long time. I got home from work and the kids were already home and one even came from her friend's house next door and walked arm in arm with me to our home.
Why would she say something like that? Even if the kids did say that, what would be her purpose?
Ugh, sometimes I wish I can just put her in her place. But I just keep my mouth shut because if I say anythiing, the only ones who wil be effected will be the kids. We have a very close relationship but they feel guilty or something toward their mom if they let it be known.
Boyfriend is out of the shower so I have to go but tell me your thoughts.