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Do you know (really) how many sex partners your SO had before you?

Anonymous
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I never asked and we've been married twenty years.  It didn't matter to me. It mattered to him, though and I told him.


Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:26 AM
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livingforthem83
by Gold Member on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:28 AM
Yeah, none. He was 16 when we met.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:29 AM
Yep. I do but it doesn't matter. We just talk about everything.
got2monsters
by Ruby Member on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:30 AM
I asked and he gave me a ballpark figure. I wasnt surprised. The conversation was over. It wasnt a big deal.
lanes_mom0109
by Silver Member on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:31 AM
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Nope, it's never been a concern for me. We were both tested before we had sex. I was more interested in making sure I didn't catch anything than how many notches he had in his belt.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:31 AM
4.
1 gf/wife (they split for a while. During that time he had his fwb. It was before they married), two FWB, 1 gf/wife
masonmom3
by Member on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:32 AM
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Who cares? The past is the past. Leave it there.

spastic_poodle
by Gold Member on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:33 AM
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Nope, we've never discussed numbers. I'd say it's quite large lol, but I don't care about the past.
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mcginnisc
by Platinum Member on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:33 AM

Yep..none..we started dating when we were 16 and lost our virginity to each other when we were 18. :-) 

Claire


" I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:33 AM

He has always maintained that I was his first, and I pretty much believe him because he was 17 when we met and had never had a real girlfriend.  He was also "inexperienced" if you know what I mean, lol.

I guess there's no way to know for sure.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 17, 2014 at 8:33 AM
It's not discussed with us because it doesn't matter in the long run
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