Please don't judge it's never been a strong point and never really been taught. Not even gonna go anonymous for this.
Update: I wanted to let you all know that since I have posted this and got some tips, that I have been noticing more spelling and grammar issues on here and other areas of my life. I didn't realize how easy spelling and grammar could be this easy to learn, but I got some good advice and great tips. I'm not there just yet but I will be.
I did talk with my DF about this and he said whatever books I need to learn I can buy tomorrow (Saturday). So any books that you think might help please list them.
Thank you. Please feel free to correct what needs to be corrected.