Heres my sob story. .
my bio father passed when I was very small. I use to see my paternal grandparents on a semi regular basis for several years after that. When I was 16 my grandfather passed away. A few years after that my grandmother found a new boyfriend. My grandmother distanced herself further and further away from me from then on. I kind of think she never gave too much of a rats ass about me. My grandfather was the one who wanted me. Especially after I had kid. I really peiced it all together.
I also have a half brother...dads side yet again. His mom kept him away from my family. He came and found us a year before my grandfather passed away. He stuck around until I was 23. Then he acted like a complete ass. An immature one at that. I still kept trying to reach out some. I keep getting blown off. I think hes pissed that I wont allow him to dictate who I speak to in life.