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Looks like we won't make it Need advice please! (Long) UPDATE

Anonymous
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I ended up asking him to leave Saturday night after more fighting and putting hands on each other. Now I miss him and can't stop crying. I know I did what is best for me and my children. He says he is moving to Florida to live with his mom so I will have the kids alone. I don't have much money and don't know what to do from here. I feel like I am dying. This hurts. This really hurts. 







My 1 year weding annivesary is in 4 days and I fel like I don't want to be married anymore.

The past 3 months have been hell. All because of my mouth. 


When DH and I met I was very young. I was his first; he wasn't mine. I was emotionally abused as a child aand as a teenager. So much so I made up a facade. A me that could not get emotionally hurt; a me that lied all the time. 

Fast forward to college. I met my DH and it was love at first sight. Like a movie.

But I could not handle it. 

Everry time something good happened in the relationship I would say or so something to mess up. I made comments about sex I had with others, even though the sex I had with them was crap and I was abused I made them seem like boyfriends. I looked at DH as perfect and me as used trash. So I felt I had to say untrue things about other people to make us "even". I even insulted his anatomy. 

So fastfoward again 14 years later. DH knows that I have been scarred (my grandmother caused most of it by telling me that I was good for nothing but laying on my back) and knows why I said the things I said

Yet he cannot get past the penis size thing. He is convinced that the two people I slept with before him were bigger and they did things to me he cannot (which is a lie). In a wa I understand how he feels because I should neever have said the things I said. 

Lately the arguments have been getting worse. All he does is tell me how I should have married the bigger penis and how I am good for nothing and my grandmother was right. He tells me how he is going to find someone that will tell him how big his penis is so he can believe them, and how he wishes my chronic migraines will kill me.  Ever day I am a bitch and he wishes he never got married. He refuses to leave and vows to "make me suffer". I don't know what to do. I work from home and he smashed my keyboard and PC screen over it.



Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 18, 2014 at 11:52 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:01 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:01 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:01 PM

BUMP!

Sunshine2plus2
by Platinum Member on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:03 PM

Sounds like you both need to divorce

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:04 PM
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Honestly unless yall attend marriage therapy I dont see this working.

seximami111
by Bronze Member on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:05 PM
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So..... you abused him now he's abusing you? You either need a divorce or some serious counseling. 

ramita
by Gold Member on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:06 PM
You need to leave. His angry, but not willing to get over it. His anger is becoming emotionally abusive, yes you may have done the same thing to some extent, but you have stopped and have tried to make up for it. He is letting his anger get the best of him, and I'm betting he isn't exactly innocent in your relationships past issues.
deboramomof2
by 💋sweetcandy💋 on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:08 PM
Idk...to me you guys do not need to be together ...get help or its not going to work
skrbelly
by Silver Member on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:08 PM
Just leave. You two have beat each other to death. Get therapy and tell yourself that you deserve to live in honesty
Leissaintexas
by Platinum Member on Jun. 18, 2014 at 12:08 PM
Wait, so he's abusive to you as well? That's not cool.
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