My daughter told her great aunt to mind her own business...wdyt?
She's 30. She's gorgeous, thin, has a great job, owns her own house, dresses nicely. She's just a bit of an immature party girl...always has been, despite my efforts. She's always at an after work happy hour, always at expensive dinners and the like. I guess she's grown up from her frat party days but still. She rarely has a boyfriend, just dates casually and doesn't pursue it. Says she likes being single and unattached and free to "do her own thing". She's stated she would absolutely never have kids.
We live in the south, and it's not uncommon for people in their early 20s to be married, even late teens. Being totally single at 30 isn't common at all here. Tonight, my daughter came to visit. My aunt was here. She's 75 and a little old fashioned, the "speak your mind" kinda lady. She started asking my daughter who she's seeing, what her beaus name is, etc. My daughter said she's not dating anyone, and doesn't care to be at the moment. My aunt seemed surprised and said "well, you're not getting any younger and those looks won't last forever". My daughter kind of laughed and made a joke about Botox but my aunt said "I can't imagine what could be wrong where you wouldn't be married by now". My daughter gave her a death glare and said "I can't imagine why you think this is any of your business. You don't need to imagine, because it's none of your concern". Neither said anything after that.
Dinner was tense after that. My daughter didn't apologize. I was embarrassed because my daughter spoke to her elderly aunt with such sass. My daughter is shrugging it off and saying "I don't care how old she is. She was being rude".
Wdyt? Would you say anything else to her? I don't have the energy for a fight tonight.