DH works third shift. He is finally off this weekend after working many weekends . He told our boys we would go swimming at the lake if he was off. So he waits half the day then decided to go to fucking bed. Left me to tell the kids we can't go. I can't drive right now due to recent diagnosis of epilepsy so I have to be seizure free for a yr. He fucking knows we all looked forward to going!!! I just wanna cry I'm so sad and frustrated . My freedom is gone and I got to look forward to getting out and he goes to fucking bed!!!! He was off last night and slept all day too so its not like he's got a reason to sleep again .