So everytime something doesn't go BMs way, she threatens DH to take him back to court, to get her daughter back. Well, 3 years ago DH received primary custody of Sd due to BM being arrested on a drug charge and not being a suitable provider. Since then, she has actually gotten worse. No job, no reliable car, has moved 4 times in 2 years, now living with current boyfriend who is on house arrest for multiple drug, weapons and assault charges. She doesn't pay child support, and had never even offered to help support Sd. She had proved many times that she is an unfit parent, and only wants Sd when she's mad at DH or I. But, she is convinced she can get custody back and keeps telling Sd that she's going to win. We don't think that she can, but then again, who knows? What do y'all think??