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Custody wars

Anonymous
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So everytime something doesn't go BMs way, she threatens DH to take him back to court, to get her daughter back. Well, 3 years ago DH received primary custody of Sd due to BM being arrested on a drug charge and not being a suitable provider. Since then, she has actually gotten worse. No job, no reliable car, has moved 4 times in 2 years, now living with current boyfriend who is on house arrest for multiple drug, weapons and assault charges. She doesn't pay child support, and had never even offered to help support Sd. She had proved many times that she is an unfit parent, and only wants Sd when she's mad at DH or I. But, she is convinced she can get custody back and keeps telling Sd that she's going to win. We don't think that she can, but then again, who knows? What do y'all think??
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:01 PM
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lovebug8526
by Member on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:04 PM
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The best think u can do is document every. Also I would not worrie to much about if you know she doesn't have a lot of money. It dose cost money to do back to court

vegaswife2011
by LMAO on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:31 PM

She doesn't have a chance in hell. Keep doing wgat you're doing. Your DH has custody for a reason, don't let her play that game. 

mommyflaw
by Bronze Member on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:34 PM

I really doubt she has a leg to stand on..

bjw_053109
by Silver Member on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:36 PM
Pfft not a chance
Andrewsmom70
by Silver Member on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:38 PM
DH should tell her to pissed or get off the pot.
Medic32
by RN=Rescue Ninja on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:38 PM
Stop all communication except in writing. Ignore her stupidity.
firemouse23
by Bronze Member on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:40 PM

Given the story you presented...not a chance in he!! she will get her back.  Don't let the ramblings of a drug addicted idiot get you flustered.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:45 PM

Idt she'll win.  Just document everything and make sure you guys do what you're supposed to.  Ignore her threats bc you know she's just trying to get a reaction. 

pinkysmommy720
by Silver Member on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:46 PM

 No chance. The judge would laugh her out of court.

bluebunnybabe
by Ruby Member on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:47 PM
I don't know how she could get custody back. I would just ignore her threats.
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