And I'm not going to develop any for her, no matter how much you ladies berate me or how many number of threads you chase me through and demand I bend over backwards to her demands. I think what she has done is absolutely ridiculous, and that it is ridiculous we can't do anything about her keeping this baby. However:
I am not going to buy her a brand new baby suite and a shiny bugaboo.
I am not going to throw her a baby shower.
I am not going to disrupt my children lives more than she already has so that she can have an en suited bedroom.
I am not going to get on my hands and knees every time she vomits or pee's all over the floor because her body can't handle the pregnancy.
I am not changing my house rules to apease her and her useless excuse of a mother.
I sure as hell am not going to buy her a fucking puppy when she is 13 with a baby on the way just because I am buying my own daughter one.
She is pregnant, not sick. This is of her own creation. I am already having to plan her birth and take her to her doctors appointments because both her and her pathetic excuse for a mother won't do it. I will probably have to be the one to accompany her during said birth at this rate. This isn't fun for me, it isn't fun for my family but I am sucking it up anyway and doing it. I'm getting no joy out of this experience, so I am sorry if I appear to be coming off as cold and cruel, but I refuse to be jumping for joy over the fact a 13 year old is pregnant. I will also continue, when asked to say that it would have been better if she had gotten an abortion. That will probably continue to be my opinion even after the baby is born. I do wonder if she were my bio daughter and not my stepdaughter if I would still get this sort of negative response.
So if you want to continue stalking me through every post I make, feel free, but I will not be replying on the subject anymore except on posts that are directly about the subject.