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Is it unacceptable for a woman not to

Anonymous
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Keep the house clean. I'm pregnant with a broken elbow and arm. My husband says the house is a mess and its unacceptable because I'm a woman. We failed inspection so our lease will not be renewed. I admit the house is not clean. It hasn't been since I broke my arm. Now I feel like shit and a horrible wife.


I'm not making excuses for myself.

He dosent work double shift. I said he has been doing double DUTY because when he comes he get the kids and does help clean. I dont disagree with the housekeeping comment. My issue with him was making it seem extra wrong because I'm a woman. That felt like a low blow. Sorry for the confusion ladies.

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 23, 2014 at 3:59 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:00 PM
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PPCLC
by Platinum Member on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:00 PM
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His arm must be broken too.....huh?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:00 PM
Bup
Lunarprancer
by Betsy on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:01 PM
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 He's an asshat.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:01 PM
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It must be a shit hole if you failed.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:02 PM
No but he has been doing double duty and now we have three months to move.

Quoting PPCLC:

His arm must be broken too.....huh?

Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:02 PM
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What inspection? And it's so bad you failed? That sounds bad...

And he can get up off his lazy ass and help you. If DH said some crap like "you're the woman", he'd get punched in the nuts.
TranquilMind
by Ruby Member on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:02 PM

 A broken arm and elbow?
He needs to pick up the slack...geez.    Tell him to get off his butt and clean the house since you can't do as much.  Do what you can, and he can do the rest.

This is what husbands do. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:02 PM
Uh- how bad is it to fail an inspection? And who has inspections, section 8? WTF? I'm sure you could do something.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 23, 2014 at 4:03 PM
Our townhome is a rental and they did an inspection. We failed and they are refusing to renew our lease.

Quoting Danesmommy1: What inspection? And it's so bad you failed? That sounds bad...

And he can get up his lazy ass and help you. If DH said some crap like "you're the woman", he'd get punched in the nuts.
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