my husband and I just went on a marriage retreat. and......
He did a great job!
Anyway, so finding out that my husbands love language is acts of service.
I'm having a hard time with this...
When we met he knew I was like disfunctionally unorganized and messy.
Yet he married me anyway. Staying organized in a small house [1100 Sq ft] for 4 people with like literally 3 closets is compounding my disfunction ways.
I guess I have a hard time comprehending how this makes him feel loved? And besides cleaning what are acts of services? We didn't get into the nitty gritty of the lo e language. ...so help a sister out!
We are on the cusp of divorce. I want to try and be better.