We are in the middle of moving & had to fly out for house hunting the thing is they only pay for the adults no children. We have a 5 yr old & no family in our current state. A girl I considered a friend went to my husband & volunteered to take her for the 3 days no money was discussed. My 5 yr old is very independent so it's not like she was watching an infant. I don't know why she didn't approach me. I was told 2 days later when I asked if hubby bough dd's ticket yet he thought I knew. So when I dropped her off we said thank you this is very sweet she said no problem my daughter has 2 brothers it gives her girl time again no mention of money. I talk to dd every night text with so called friend sent her a pic of the house were building that night before putting my dd on the phone she asked us how much we planned on paying her that HER FRIEND (NOT THE ONE WATCHING HER) let's ca her methhead mama bc she's known around town for doing favors for meth & has a 2 yr old my dd actually helped my friend take cars off while her kids were at school. She tells me MM says I should pay her 9.00 an hr for 24 hrs for all 3 days & the time it takes to get to her. Or 600 dollars. Um no I was outraged I said you volunteered never mentioned money till I showed you the house. I told her we were gonna give her 300 100 for each day we have moving expenses that don't get reimbursed right away! She wanted 350 DH said fine. The day we were suppose to leave I woke up in screaming head pain DH had to go into his new job for a meeting came back and I had gotten sick in the trashcan I was shivering and he had to help me to the bathroom in which I screamed the whole way and cried. I told him there was no way he was getting me downstairs to the car to the ER to wait. So he had to have the front desk call 911 the paramedics came I kept passing out I had no veins to get fluid in me my temp was 105 I was shaking dizzy I couldn't remember things but I could remember the Prez with disgust which made them laugh. It took 3 hrs to bring the fever down to 102 they did a spinal tap it turned out I must've caught a bad virus on the plane. I had to spend the night in the hospital bc my fevers stayed above 101 at 3 am I got a 99.0 and it stayed down. The Dr disagreed but we had to get back so I flew home with a mask on only sitting next to my husband direct flight. We get our daughter and I spend all week in bed weak and miserable. My husband didn't get pId for 4 days when we got home we gave her our last 100 she started blowing up our phones she was gonna get evicted if we didn't pay her right away DH explained he had to make our budget and he'd pull out the 250 and drop it off after work not good enough she harassed me sYing I know you have Money to go grocery shopping you can delay it I need the 250 now plus 350 for the extra day we had your dd bc it was not expected. I told her it was an emergency and you can't just demand that. We got in a huge fight. DH got the money to her um her FB showed her partying at bars all weekend she told a bartender I know (small town) she suckered some poor people outta money. The bartender is one of my BFF and knew what happened a and had her thrown out of the bar. So I ran into MM and ex friend at the grocery store and mm got in my fVe with my daughter there saying if I didn't give ex friend the extra 350 she'd fuck me up. My daughter was right there I asked her to get away from me she kept following me I finally told a worker she was harassing me she got removed by the cops. Now ex friend is texting DH saying her car is breKing down and she did us a favor! When we knew about the extra day we called hubby's co worker who was off and she offered to take dd. But ex friend insisted it was no problem. She's now threatening to press charges on me for breech of contract!! Um there was no contrac verbal or written she said her husband and mm friend was there when my husband offered to pay 350 for the extra day! It's bs. I can't wAit to get the fuck out of here I have a temp restraining order on ex And mm. I can take it to court tomorrow to make it permanent. Even the cops say she doesn't have a leg to stand on. Grrr why are people like that?!?! As soon as they know you have money boom they want it! It's called hard work! Maybe they should try it! My poor dd is afraid the lady with ugly teeth is gonna get her mommy I told her no worries if she even tries the police will take her. Has anyone dealt with greedy people?