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13 and pregnant posts -- CLARIFICATION

Anonymous
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Stop asking for advice! It's a kid. She already shown how stupid and irresponsible she is. Make the appointment with the clinic and drive her there
If she doesn't want the abortion, call the state on her and tell them you cant support another , baby in your household. The end.

This is based on a situation my sister was in with her pregnant 13 year old 4 years ago, and the steps she took after dd refused the abortion.  There is a way around it.  She called the state and told them she would care for her dd but not a baby she brought into the home.  The state gave the 13 year old a choice -- foster care for her and the baby, foster care for only baby until teen was 18 and gainfully employed with an apartment for one year or put the baby up for adoption.  

My niece chose adoption, remained with her mother, and graduated from HS last month.  Two lives saved.  

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:37 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:39 PM
Oh geez!! Pm her op.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:39 PM
How does that work if the grandparents refuse to support the baby? A 13 year old couldn't, but don't the grandparents only have a legal obligation to support their own child?
DevonD83
by Silver Member on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:40 PM
She is what 5 months pregnant now. They can't force even a child to kill the baby
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:42 PM

She wouldn't have a choice ....abortion period

mommy2adandykid
by on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:42 PM

honestly yea, they should really do that. and to be honest, it shouldn't matter how far along she is-from the posts, the little girl's body isn't handling it well at all(which is to be expected) and from experiance doctors CAN AND WILL suggest abortions up through 20 weeks or so.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:43 PM
She likes the attention but your advice is stupid and ignorant
An0nym0use
by Rock Lobster on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:43 PM
Well she's like 5 or 6 months along now so....yea.
crazymomof281
by Melissa on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:44 PM
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Nobody other than the pregnant person can make that decision period.

Quoting Anonymous:

She wouldn't have a choice ....abortion period

BamaMommy2
by Angel.N.Disguise on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:45 PM

She is past the point of being able to have an abortion.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 25, 2014 at 7:46 PM
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My sister did this. They couldn't force her to take in the grandchild. The state told the 13 yr old that the child had to be put I to foster care till she had a job, apartment, insurance etc. She gave the child up for adoption thank , god!

Quoting Anonymous: How does that work if the grandparents refuse to support the baby? A 13 year old couldn't, but don't the grandparents only have a legal obligation to support their own child?
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