I have a friend who has an extremely controlling DH. She has gained a little weight (ok, actually a lot) since they got married. She is about 40 lbs heavier than she was about 18 months ago, I suspect it's Because she is so unhappy. He told her he isn't attracted to her and is looking at other women now, and actually gave her a weightloss goal per week. He wants her to lose 7lbs per week. He wants her to wake up at 6:30 to work out, and then work out again after the kids go to bed. He is "limiting" her cell phone time and the time she spends watching TV. He told her she should clean 1-2 hours per day to help burn more calories. Her husband told her last night that she should just start only drinking water and if she is feeling extremely hungry, maybe eat a bite of something, but she isn't "allowed" to eat after 4 pm. The most ironic thing is her DH is unhealthy. He eats out every single day with his co-workers for lunch, and then eats no fruits or veggies when he is home. I have repeatedly told her what a dick this guy is, but she doesn't seem to care she gets treated like this.