I need some advice. I have been married for almost 7 years. My husband has always had "control" over our sex life. Like if he wants it we have sex, if he doesn't then im on my own. While I was pregnant with both of our kids he didnt even touch me the entire pregnancy because he thought it was weird. So I respected that and yes I would get real bitchy when I was horny and I knew he wouldn't even touch me. Sonetimes he would even prefer to argue with me til 3 am just so I wouldnt want him. So now he works nights and we don't have much chance to have sex at all. So we are both like turned on for eachother but we cant act on it. When he has 2 days off he will have sex with me one night but the second night he acts all mad. He yells he doesn't talk to me and gives me bull shit excuses to not talk to me. Im just so confused. I think he regrets having sex with me and thats why he is mad the next day. I have tried to talk to him about it but he begins an arguement. Its not worth it anymore for me so I just want to have a sexless marriage. I have come to the conclusion that sex with him is not worth it anymore since I will end up heart broken the next day. What would you do?