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He almost had me

Anonymous
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So my daughters sm went into labor she is 36 weeks, I'm in the hospital because I gave birth Tuesday via c section.

My son is in the nicu I was on my way in to see him when her dad showed up with our 4 year old outside of the doors and asked me to take her.

Why the hell he didn't just call my mom first is beyond me, but I brought her back to my room and he came and got her. He caused a huge scene and almost had me thrown out!

I won't be having my four year old up to visit my son in the nicu like I wanted. he decided it was a good idea to bring her up here instead of calling my mom before bringing our daughter to the hospital at 1am because his wife was in labor. I had our 4 year old with my family but he went and picked her up.

I have a headache now and need pain meds. I was just fine earlier. I'm ticked at him for bringing our 4 year old to the hospital at 1am when he should have called my mom first.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:41 AM
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JackieGirl007
by on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:45 AM

Wow, how did he expect you to take care of her?

SitaStJames
by *Sita* on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:45 AM

he probably wasnt thinking straight since his wife was in labor...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:46 AM
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activitymode
by Platinum Member on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:47 AM
Your poor dd. That's a lot of chaos.
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MamaTasha08
by Gold Member on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:47 AM
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I'm confused.

WickedOpal
by Silver Member on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:48 AM

Men are stupid.  You expect them to think straight?  GL with that.

DanaG70
by Platinum Member on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:49 AM
Why would you get thrown out of the hospital if he's being an ass?
graybealgirl
by Platinum Member on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:50 AM


Quoting WickedOpal:

Men are stupid.  You expect them to think straight?  GL with that.

R00k
by on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:51 AM
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I don't understand why this turned into a huge thing when you could have been like, "Why didn't you call my mother?" And he would have said, "I dunno. I'm losing my shit because another human being is squirming its way out of my wife right now." And then you could have said, "OK, well, I will call her." OR "OK, go to the lobby/waiting room/whatever and call her now and she will come pick her up."


... Done.
Bluerose1482
by Ruby Member on Jun. 28, 2014 at 2:55 AM
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So did he or did he not want her with you?  He brought her to you (while you were admitted to the hospital) and then came back to get her and tried to have you (the patient) thrown out of the hospital?  None of this makes sense.

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