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Masturbating!!! Answer needed!

Anonymous
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When a man masturbates, is it always a given that he has to SEE & be WATCHING tv/video/website to get off. Do you believe a man can "get off" by just mentally fantasizing,or do you think they physically have to be viewing something?


*my autocorrect is changing fantasizing ** looks weird to me.. sorry if it's wrong ..
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:35 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:35 AM
bump for answers
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:38 AM

no, they're just like us. I'm sure most of us can get off by visualizing. So can they

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:39 AM

I know my husband does it in the shower sometimes, I doubt he can look at anything in there lol. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:39 AM

Men can get off without visual aid. Many prefer to get off with visual aid because it is easier and more exciting. 

PoisonEyeV
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:39 AM

I'm sure they'd rather visualize something but without a doubt they can mentally fantasize as well.

handy0318
by Ruby Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:40 AM

Yeah... I'm pretty sure that men can get off by fantasizing. Porn might help, but no, it's not absolutely necessary. 

hateaway
by Platinum Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:41 AM
They're just like us. Imagination and just waking up works for them lol
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:44 AM
Everyone is different. I get the feeling this post is from a woman who is trying to control her boyfriend/husband and doesn't want him watching porn or looking at other women in magazines. Reality check: he will do it with or without your consent!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:44 AM
No, they do not need to physically be viewing images. However, so men prefer to.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:47 AM
no ..not at all. I don't control him one bit. he did tell me last week though that he DOESNT watch porn. he said he mentally can achieve his goal.. and I just find that hard to believe-
so no, I have no desire to CONTROL my husband of 25 years! That's never been our marriage!

Quoting Anonymous: Everyone is different. I get the feeling this post is from a woman who is trying to control her boyfriend/husband and doesn't want him watching porn or looking at other women in magazines. Reality check: he will do it with or without your consent!
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