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Masturbating!!! Answer needed!

Anonymous
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When a man masturbates, is it always a given that he has to SEE & be WATCHING tv/video/website to get off. Do you believe a man can "get off" by just mentally fantasizing,or do you think they physically have to be viewing something?


*my autocorrect is changing fantasizing ** looks weird to me.. sorry if it's wrong ..
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:35 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:35 AM
bump for answers
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:38 AM

no, they're just like us. I'm sure most of us can get off by visualizing. So can they

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:39 AM

I know my husband does it in the shower sometimes, I doubt he can look at anything in there lol. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:39 AM

Men can get off without visual aid. Many prefer to get off with visual aid because it is easier and more exciting. 

PoisonEyeV
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:39 AM

I'm sure they'd rather visualize something but without a doubt they can mentally fantasize as well.

handy0318
by Ruby Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:40 AM

Yeah... I'm pretty sure that men can get off by fantasizing. Porn might help, but no, it's not absolutely necessary. 

hateaway
by Platinum Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:41 AM
They're just like us. Imagination and just waking up works for them lol
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:44 AM
Everyone is different. I get the feeling this post is from a woman who is trying to control her boyfriend/husband and doesn't want him watching porn or looking at other women in magazines. Reality check: he will do it with or without your consent!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:44 AM
No, they do not need to physically be viewing images. However, so men prefer to.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:47 AM
no ..not at all. I don't control him one bit. he did tell me last week though that he DOESNT watch porn. he said he mentally can achieve his goal.. and I just find that hard to believe-
so no, I have no desire to CONTROL my husband of 25 years! That's never been our marriage!

Quoting Anonymous: Everyone is different. I get the feeling this post is from a woman who is trying to control her boyfriend/husband and doesn't want him watching porn or looking at other women in magazines. Reality check: he will do it with or without your consent!
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