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I'm not a maid.

Anonymous
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I'm not.

I stay home and raise our son. I work from home when he naps and into the night after he goes to bed. I work out of the home part time as part of my business.

I clean up after our son. I do laundry and dishes and clean And cook. I homeschool.

I'M SORRY- BUT I DID NOT SIGN UP ANYWHERE FOR BEING MAID/ SECRETARY/ MOTHER TO A GROWN ASS MAN. Laundry- fine. Dishes- fine.

Pee in the toilet. If you miss, CLEAN IT UP
If you have a meal while I'm out and make a mess, CLEAN IT UP!!!
After you shave and leave hair everywhere- CLEAN IT UP!!!!!!!!!

If you offer to help me pick up, ACTUALLY PUT SHIT WHERE IT GOES! DO NOT MAKE A GIANT PILE IN THE CORNER THAT I HAVE TO SORT AND PUT AWAY!

I feel like pulling my hair out. His mess is almost as big as our SON'S and he's barely home.

Fuck. End rant.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:02 AM
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Jessy613
by Diamond Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:03 AM

ewww lol I hate seeing hair after my husband shaves..luckily he cleans it. but just the sight of it makes me gag...

sorry you have to deal with that. Have you tried talking to him about it? he sounds like a lazy duck.

sarbear8508
by Platinum Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:05 AM
You should talk to him. Maybe he doesn't realize what he's not doing bugs you so much.
Linda_Runs
by Gold Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:06 AM
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If I had a dollar for everytime I said that I'm not a maid I would be rich!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:06 AM
Oh yes. Yes I have. He "works so hard" and "forgets". Fucking slob.

He wasn't this bad when we got married. I mean, never perfect, but not nearly THIS bad. Now I'm home.. so that MUST mean I have way more time and energy.

Quoting Jessy613:

ewww lol I hate seeing hair after my husband shaves..luckily he cleans it. but just the sight of it makes me gag...

sorry you have to deal with that. Have you tried talking to him about it? he sounds like a lazy duck.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:07 AM
I've tried. Always excuses, never any change.

Quoting sarbear8508: You should talk to him. Maybe he doesn't realize what he's not doing bugs you so much.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:07 AM
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Me too.
And "I'm not your mother"

I'd have a house on the beach!

Quoting Linda_Runs:

If I had a dollar for everytime I said that I'm not a maid I would be rich!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:09 AM
Yes
iamcafemom83
by Ruby Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:09 AM
I often feel this way. I think my husband has become spoiled. He leaves water around the bathroom sink (did he take a bath in there? Wtf!) And when I ask him to wipe it up, he says "you didn't leave a towel out for me to wipe up" whatttt....the towels are in the closet right next to you!!!

He is just messy. I hate nagging but Wth. You livehere, too. Own your mess.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:10 AM
Men are so messy. At least my son helps pick up his mess.

Quoting Anonymous: Yes
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:11 AM
Yes!!
I hate that!! "Oh you didn't (xyz)" fucker you're an ADULT. ACT LIKE IT.

As I rampage like a teenager on here... I just need to let it out.

Quoting iamcafemom83: I often feel this way. I think my husband has become spoiled. He leaves water around the bathroom sink (did he take a bath in there? Wtf!) And when I ask him to wipe it up, he says "you didn't leave a towel out for me to wipe up" whatttt....the towels are in the closet right next to you!!!

He is just messy. I hate nagging but Wth. You livehere, too. Own your mess.
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