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Rude people!! A vent...

Posted by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:04 AM
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Need to vent 'cause I'm pissed off. We had My son's Baptism yesterday and we had confirmed w the restaurant the number of guests. We had 4 adults and 2 kids not show up which we had to pay for. No call beforehand or anything! Wtf? Had they given me notice I would have called the restaurant and wouldn't have been charged, but that's was $200!! One was my husband's cousin's husband, his daughters and wife came but he decided not to show, he wasn't working, he was home. Then my sister's father in law also decided not to show, and then my Godson's parents and their boys. Just found out my godson was sick since Thursday, they could have called. Seriously so effin rude :/
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:05 AM
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Shit happens,  get the fuck over it and don't invite them next time!

Lilith23
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:08 AM
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You need Yesus.

Quoting Anonymous:

Shit happens,  get the fuck over it and don't invite them next time!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:08 AM
That would piss me right off..! Waay to ruin the day.. and SUPER rude. Crazy how people are.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:09 AM
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 Already found him,  he's tied up in the basement!

Quoting Lilith23: You need Yesus.
Quoting Anonymous:

Shit happens,  get the fuck over it and don't invite them next time!

 

Mom-to-2kids
by Sapphire Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:10 AM
That's awful. I hate when people are assholes. I get sometimes emergencies happen and you can't give notice, but for everyday stuff don't be a asshat.
Lilith23
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:11 AM
Sorry :/ sucks, 200 is a lot.
Next time don't even bother with them, I'd be pissed too.
Lilith23
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:12 AM
Fucking eh?! No wonder he didn't sell me my cigarettes this morning.
Let him in, let him plant his lovin seed, let him go.


Quoting Anonymous:

 Already found him,  he's tied up in the basement!


Quoting Lilith23: You need Yesus.
Quoting Anonymous:

Shit happens,  get the fuck over it and don't invite them next time!


 

msharleyjr
by Gold Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:31 AM
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People don't RSVP anymore. For anything. Nor do they say thank you .
My daughter combined the boys birthday for just that reason. She was afraid no one would up at two different parties .
The boys wanted a pool party and you have to pay for a min. Of 40 guests and 4 lifeguards regardless of how big your party.

Still there quite a few people that didn't show and didn't call. She ended up calling everyone again the day of the party. People had forgotten.

I don't know if life has us too busy or life has made us lazy. But the outcome is the same it's rude.

I'm sorry you had to end up paying for everything without your guests. It would have been nice to have them there .
It's too late to do anything about it now.
I hope it didn't take away from your sons special day. Congrats on the baptism!
Huggz momma!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:40 AM

They should have called you and told you that they would not be able to make it, or they should pay for making you reserve a spot for them at the restaurant and them not showing up.

bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Jun. 29, 2014 at 11:42 AM
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I would be irritated but I would never book with a restaurant that charges by the person to start with. Anytime we have a large group, we go somewhere & everyone orders what they want. You never know when someone may not be able to make it.
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