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Does this mean he cheated?

Anonymous
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I'm trying to wrap my head around this. Last week, I had to have a pap because the first one they did came back abnormal. I've never had an abnormal pap so they redid it. On Friday my Doctor called me and said I tested positive for HPV. I'm 43 years old. My husband and I have been together for 20 years. I know I need to call her back and talk to her about it. I was just in so much shock. My husband is coming home tonight from a business trip and I just can't seem to get it through my head that this means he cheated, and recently is my guess. I don't want to spend a bunch of time on Google and scare myself, but I just don't know what to think right now. This does mean he cheated doesn't it? 

- I don't have HPV. My husband is next to me on the couch snoring and my kids are watching the carebears. I'm so bored. Kitschy

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:40 PM
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AngryBob
by Ruby Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:41 PM
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He'd be coming home to the locks changed and his shit on the lawn.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:41 PM
Yep. His business trips aren't really work related.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:42 PM
It can go into hiding and you not test positive for years. Same goes with your husband. But i've never heard of it laying dormant for 20+ years. Sorry
seximami111
by Silver Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:43 PM

Sorry, I agree.

Quoting AngryBob: He'd be coming home to the locks changed and his shit on the lawn.


smorgan865
by Ruby Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:43 PM
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No, HPV can lie dormant in your body for many years.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:43 PM

So it's definite then. There is no other explanation right?

Quoting AngryBob: He'd be coming home to the locks changed and his shit on the lawn.


nopenope666
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:43 PM
No you got hpv from the god damn television.
MilkLover0203
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:43 PM
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Uh, can't some of that shit lay dormant for years? Twenty is a lot of years, but maybe? I'd calmly ask him, explain what the doctor told you, wait for his answer, then fucking kill him.
Lucky2BaMomof2
by Gold Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:43 PM
He's mixing business and pleasure sweetie... I'm sorry..
nopenope666
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 3:44 PM
Twenty something years though?

Quoting smorgan865: No, HPV can lie dormant in your body for many years.

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