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I just found out my husband has a gf who he has been with for longer than me.

Anonymous
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We got married two years ago. Things have been really great up until now. He got into an accident and was put in the hospital. I found a cell phone hidden in his car. I looked in it and there was only one number

I didnt know what to do. I asked him about it when he was starting to feel better and he denied that it was his.

I ended up calling the number and found out he has a gf. They have been together for 10 years now! We have been together 5 total between dating and being married.

I dont even know when he was seeing her. He does travel about 2 weeks a year for work but I have gone on a trip with him before and he didnt go and see her.

I just dont know what to do. He doesnt even know I know yet he thinks I bought the "it isnt his cell phone" thing.

ETA: I am not going to be in a relationship anymore and I will be divorcing him. I just dont know if I want to give up the house I want to get all my options laid out.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:02 PM
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sandra_t00
by ChaChi on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:06 PM
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Really? Divorce his ass! Your whole relationship is a lie and you are sitting here thinking what you should do?
j3st3r
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:07 PM
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Did you ask her when she sees him?

Did she know about you?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:07 PM
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He probably gets together with her during work or when out doing "errands". What does it even matter though? I would leave him immediately knowing this.
jjames0991
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:08 PM
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Sounds more like an emotional affair and strong friendship
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:08 PM
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Why would he marry you and not her if they were already dating?
xoch86
by Platinum Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:09 PM
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This is all sorts of effed up, get as much info as you can and divorce his ass!

TaralynnStewart
by Ruby Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:09 PM
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This. I would have had plenty of questions for her .

Quoting j3st3r: Did you ask her when she sees him?

Did she know about you?
redneck.crazy
by on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:10 PM
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Ummm...yeah..ok
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kirstensmommie
by Bronze Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:11 PM
Do they have kids?
DoofusAloofus
by Gold Member on Jun. 29, 2014 at 9:11 PM

Um.   How about a sister wife?.... No?  I'd be ditching his butt then.

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